Having sexual fantasies is a normal part of sex. In your mind, you make certain representations of what something could be so that you can sometimes see it as a movie in your mind. When you notice that certain BDSM imaginations appeal to you, this can make you decide to give it a try.
Within BDSM, the fantasies are often realized through role play. A role play can be quite exciting because you and your partner are in a role that is probably less common for you. It can be a way to escape from daily reality. Here is a list of the most popular sex fantasies of Subs and Doms for you.
Tied up
In bondage, one of the partners is tied up by the other and thus restricted in his or her freedom of movement. The feeling of being in control of someone else and the feeling of powerlessness that comes with it is a popular fantasy of many BDSM people. For a submissive, the limitation in movement can be a liberation from the responsibilities of daily life. In addition, it enables the submissive to fully focus on her or his own pleasure. The bonding partner has full control over bondage and thus all freedom to let his imagination run free.
To limit someone’s freedom of movement, there are various bondage toys available such as bondage ropes, cuffs or spread bars that keep certain body parts apart.
Nursing
Few people go to the doctor for fun. The white coats, the medical equipment on display and a stranger sitting at your side. You never know in advance what exactly you can expect during a doctor’s visit. This tension has ensured that a role-play between patient and doctor is increasingly popular within the BDSM scene. A role-play between doctor and patient is called Nursing or Medical Play. In this case, the Dominant is the doctor or nurse, where the submissive takes on the role of the patient.
The forced sex fantasy
Believe it or not, many women sometimes fantasize about forced sex. Recent studies have shown that almost 90 percent of women sometimes fantasize about it. Research shows that those type of fantasies is especially popular with adventurous women who are very open about sexuality. They are more likely to fantasize about situations that go beyond what they would ever want to experience.
The idea of an extremely dominant person who cannot tolerate contradiction is seen by many women as the most exciting aspect of this fantasy. With the help of a role play, this fantasy can be performed in a more ‘innocent’ way.
Sex with a stranger
Making love without obligations back and forth is a fantasy that appeals to many men and women from femdom dating. For a man, there is nothing more satisfying than flirting with a woman and taking her home or to the hotel for example. For women, a man who does his best and tries to seduce her can also be a very exciting game.
Sex with a stranger you’ve just met is, therefore, a popular role-play among couples. You can also take on a slightly different role than usual. For example, a man can take on the role of a businessman.
